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Friday, December 12, 2014

Joking about kids with food allergies??!!

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I was a little shocked this week when I read a story online about a school board member who joked that students with food allergies "should be shot." I believe they were discussing food allergies in schools and how to handle them.


Anaphylaxis is no joking matter. I have a seafood allergy, and Son #2 has a tree nut allergy. I have actually witnessed a severe allergic reaction - anaphylaxis   in Son #1.

I never want to see that again as long as I live. I have shared this story before, but here goes....

Son #2 was in the hospital (one of 8 hospitalizations), thanks to pneumonia. Hubby came down for his turn at the hospital, so I went home to pick up Son #1 and daughter Kitty. Son #1 needed his weekly allergy shots. Our plan was to get shots, grab a pizza, and head back down to the hospital to have dinner and watch a movie as a family.

We ALWAYS wait 20 minutes after allergy shots. You are supposed to stay so just in case you have an allergic reaction. I told Shot Nurse that we weren't going to stay this one time, that we were going to grab a pizza and head back to the hospital. She said, "you'll be fine....what are the odds that anything will happen?"

So, we hopped in the car and were a block a way when Son #1 said, "Mom, I think something's wrong." I looked in my rear view mirror and saw a VERY red-faced son. His neck was bulging, his eyes were glassy and bulging, and he was coughing. I swerved over to the side of the road, flipped a U-turn, and headed back to the office. I called the office to let them know what was going on. 

Shot Nurse was ready for us when we RAN from the parking lot. She gave Son #1 a shot of epinephrine (what's normally in an Epi Pen) and started a breathing treatment. Daughter Kitty was wide eyed and clutching her stuffed animal. She knew something was REALLY wrong.

Shot Nurse was calm and talked to Son #1, all the while monitoring his oxygen level and symptoms. She stayed with us for 2 hours after the office closed. (They are located right next to a hospital!)

She also let us know that you can have a rebound effect , meaning that the anaphylaxis can come back after hours or even days later. WHAT??!!

So, she gave us a prescription for an Epi Pen. We stopped at the pharmacy to fill that. Thinking that if he DID have a rebound effect that least we would already be at the hospital! 

Meanwhile, Hubby called and said, "Hey, where's the pizza??!!" He was unaware that anything was going on. He had no idea that Shot Nurse was saving our son's life.

I was so scared and shaky that I could barely drive back to the hospital. We ended up just getting pizza delivered to the hospital and watched a movie with the kids. All the while I was thinking how grateful I am for modern medicine and for Shot Nurse who just saved my son's life.

The same thing can happen with food allergies. I have to inspect any food that is not prepared by me - yep, office parties, church parties, family parties, restaurants. I am not afraid to ask, "does this have seafood in it?" I will ask the person who prepared it, and if I can't find them, then Hubby will try to the food first to see if it's safe for me to eat. We do the same thing for Son #2's tree nut allergy. Tree nuts are in soooo many desserts and ice creams, we have to be very careful.

To the school board member who said "just shoot them", I would like her to visit kids in the hospital who have experienced anaphylaxis. Or read any of the stories online about someone who has died from a food allergy.

It is no joking matter.  


  1. Geez!! How ignorant and insensitive!! I know it's inconvient to have a peanut free classroom. (I had a classmate in elementary school who had a severe peanut allergy and no one in the who grade level could bring pb&j) but I'd rather be inconvienienced than have a dead child. Instead of focusing I. The negative consider that having to have a nut free classroom could be an opportunity to teach children compassion for one another and from the replies on message boards I see, it looks like some adults could use a lesson in compassion as well.

    1. I agree! Once someone published the video of the meeting online, she was forced to resign because of public outcry.

      I have to keep reminding myself.....she may have never seen someone having a severe allergic reaction. I don't think she understands how quickly it can lead to death if not treated.

      In one story I read, the director of a near by children's hospital invite the council member to visit the hospital and see what happens to children after suffering anaphylaxis. It may take seeing a child hooked up to a heart monitor, oxygen and breathing treatments (or worse - on life support) for her to see that this is NO laughing matter :(

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  3. Oh my! That is beyond unacceptable. Ailments are the gravest things, no matter how they fare in terms of severity. Their very nature is fluid, so those act up and amplify like routine. Vigilance is a must, something that should start with how people should be made to understand it on a daily basis and the degree of which they should instantly do so. Anyway, thanks for sharing that! All the best to you!

    Terry Roberson @ MedCare Pediatric Group, LP

    1. Agreed! It almost amounts to bullying. I would never do something like that to someone who had diabetes, seizures, etc.

      It's hard enough to live with a chronic disease. I don't need people making fun of me about it....